Thursday, August 25, 2016

Be Daring


It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

 Theodore Roosevelt

Monday, August 22, 2016

A Laugh A Day

 "Laughter is an instant vacation." Milton Berle 
Cancer recovery requires lots of stress relievers.
None are better than touches of humor from dear friends.

Friday, December 11, 2015

I Hope You Dance

Dance of HopeI Hope You Dance



I love the well known song by Leeanne Womack
-I HOPE YOU DANCE
Worry, Dread, Fear, and Pessimism are not ways to live life to it's fullest.  Besides the fact that they make one miserable, these negative feelings steal energy, joy, and the ability to connect in healthy ways with others.  
As a cancer survivor, I have had my share of dealing with these downers.  We have to recognize and acknowledge the grief, disappointment, and other roots of these feelings. It is important to be kind to ourselves and give our hearts time to recover.  But it is also important to know when to rise back up, find new purpose, and move forward.  
May your 'dance of life' be one in which you choose hope, gratitude, joy, and love as your favorite steps!


Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.

Monday, August 31, 2015

Book Review: It Is Well With My Soul, Meditations for Those Living with Illness, Pain, and the Challenges of Aging

"We are never too old or too young to change, never too far for God’s hand of mercy to reach us, and never beyond the hope of God’s redeeming love."
Shelly Beach wrote the above statement in Section Six of this book, It Is Well With My Soul,  Meditations for Those Living with Illness, Pain, and the Challenges of Aging.
She illustrates this truth beautifully with her openness in telling her own story and ones of many others throughout this inspiring book.  Full of real human life struggles and emotions, the book applies God's Word in practical helpful ways to bring hope and healing to hurting hearts.  As a Stage IV Lung cancer survivor, I found this book greatly beneficial.
(I was provided an electronic copy of this book by the publisher for honest review.)
It Is Well with My Soul: http://amzn.to/1LGSotw

Sunday, May 24, 2015

Silver Linings


...focusing on Yeshua, the initiator and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before Him, He endured the cross, disregarding its shame; and He has taken His seat at the right hand of the throne of God. (Hebrews 12:2 TLV)

Upon looking back at the last four years now of being a lung cancer survivor, I observe there are often silver linings in the midst of pain.  For the first year, I wanted my life back just as it had been before cancer-without the loss & grief that critical illness brought into my life.  But looking now at who I am today, I realize I like myself much better than I used to!  
When you are given a 16% chance of survival, there isn't much time for pretense any more.  Just simple living with real raw feelings & relationships that are truly meaningful in life.  No wasted efforts spent on things that are not enjoyable or important- only time pursuing what really matters to me in life and gratitude everyday for the big and small pleasures that come.  
I have many imperfections, just as before cancer, but am better able now to let GRACE do its work within me and not strive in my own vain efforts....
Not I, but CHRIST is the author & finisher in my life!
I think Milton expresses it well in the words below:


I see ye visibly, and now believe
That he, the Supreme Good, to whom all things ill
Are but as slavish officers of vengeance,
Would send a glistering guardian, if need were
To keep my life and honour unassailed.
Was I deceived, or did a sable cloud
Turn forth her silver lining on the night?
I did not err; there does a sable cloud
Turn forth her silver lining on the night,
And casts a gleam over this tufted grove.

~John Milton

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Living ln Difficult Times



I have, at times, found myself not really living life
but just waiting
for the next big thing to come.... 
The problem with that was I missed out.
Inspiration and connection with God,
ourselves, 
each other, 
is often found when & where we least expect it.  
If you find yourself in 'waiting mode' today,
begin to look for what is already there within or around you.  
Perhaps there is more than you have ever thought existed
Maybe you just need new eyes!
   Eyes to see:
   Beauty in the midst of pain
   Hope in a time of despair
   Calm in the throes of chaos
   Creativity while beside a pool of boredom
   A spark of light where you thought none existed!

For thou wilt light my candle: the Lord my God will enlighten my darkness. (Psalms 18:28 KJV)

Lord, let our eyes see what you have for us at this very moment.  
Open our hearts to receive the fullness of life that is your gift 
available to us at all times!